St. Monica, the mother of St. Augustine, is a shining example of faith and perseverance. Her unwavering prayers and devotion led to the conversion of her husband, mother-in-law, and sons. Inspired by her story, Catholic author Maggie Green shares five rules to help you bring your loved ones back to the Catholic faith.
Rule 1: Pray Without Ceasing
Green advises praying continuously, seeking the intercession of saints, guardian angels, and holy souls in purgatory. Ask deceased loved ones to pray for your distant relatives, that they may be worthy of Christ’s promises.
Rule 2: Offer Fasting and Sacrifices
St. Monica’s example shows that even small offerings can be powerful. Make sacrifices, give alms, and offer your obedience as a way to atone for sins and mold your will to God’s.
Rule 3: Love Your Prodigal Son
Welcome your loved ones with authenticity and faithfulness. Share meals, pray with them, and show Christ’s love through your actions.
Rule 4: Ask Others to Pray with You
Gather a community to pray for your loved ones, even if they’re unaware of their distance from the faith. This reveals your trust in God’s power to heal and redeem.
Rule 5: Persist
Never be discouraged, knowing that God uses your life to draw every soul to Himself. Every moment of devotion, prayer, love, sacrifice, or service is valuable and contributes to the ultimate goal of reunion at the heavenly banquet.
St. Monica’s story and Green’s rules offer hope and guidance for those waiting for their loved ones to return to the faith. By following these principles, you can trust in God’s power to transform lives and reunite families in His love.


