Life which is in the pioneer days of marriage is really energetic and happy. Fast forward five, ten, twenty, or more years. Both of you feel tired and burdened by your responsibilities. Perhaps you have children, busy jobs, compacted timetables, or other concerns to deal with.
You don’t know why … but something feels lacking. The spark in your relationship has blurred. Maybe you’re even struggling to find a sense of connection with your partner and are wondering “what went wrong”?
A spiritual connection is basically a deep affinity felt between two people. This deep closeness goes beyond superficial personality traits, likes, dislikes, or shared interests. Instead, a spiritual connection is about sharing the same fundamental values, beliefs, life goals, and dreams as the other. Two people who share a spiritual connection will meet each other on the same vibrational wavelength and will be able to share everything with each other.
Spiritually connected couples often share the following traits:
Honesty
Empathetic listening
Mutual respect
Gratitude for each other
Authentic interaction
Open communication
Meaningful conversations
Intimate sex
Autonomy
Unconditional love
Ways to Create a Spiritual Connection With Your Partner
Creating a spiritual connection with your partner isn’t about indoctrinating them into believing what you believe or liking what you like. Both of these approaches are immature and damaging to your relationship.
Instead, creating a spiritual connection is about deepening the Soul contact between the two of you. Spiritual connection is about becoming vulnerable, engaged, attentive, open, and receptive to the other person.
Here are some recommendations:
1. Eye Contact
Giving eye contact is an important thing in growing a personal bond. It is extremely intimate. When you give your partner eye contact, you are basically showing them that you are interested and deeply engaged in what they’re saying. Eye contact is not only a sign of respect, it is the best way to connect with another person’s Soul.
2. “Our Time”
To maintain a relationship, we need to put in some extra energy and time. One of the easiest things you can do is set aside time each day out of your busy schedule to exclusively sit with your partner. Even sitting together in each other’s arms on the couch watching a movie is a good way to begin deepening your spiritual connection.
3. Touch More
Physical touch is an immensely important element of creating a spiritual connection. The subtle energy exchanged through touch is very binding in that it helps to create a deeper affinity with your partner.
4. Have Worthy Conversations
Start a conversation with your loved one. It is better to have meaningful conversations with your partner during your morning walks or the time when you are together. Share whatever is on your mind and find a regular place and time to do that.
5. Laugh Together
Laughter opens the heart and deepens your spiritual connection immediately. Learn how to laugh at yourself, your partner, and together with each other, in a light-hearted way. Even simply watching funny videos together can deepen your bond.