Can one be completely forgiven? Why is this one question so important? Especially when we are angry with those who hurt us badly, who punished us for a crime we did not commit, and who tried to discredit us. It is possible to say quickly that it is possible in speech, but you must also be able to forgive with your heart. Isn’t that how it is? Everything is possible with God. But he also needs the cooperation of human beings.
Jesus taught us to pray, “Forgive us our sins, as we forgive as our trespassers.” By praying in this way, we confess that we are willing to forgive those who have wronged us. This prayer reminds us that God can make it possible even when it seems impossible for us. Because recognize that the Lord always gives the grace to fulfill His commandments.
Each person needs to be recognized, understood and respected as they are. It’s a way to forgive more quickly. Children need to be forgiven and taught when they make mistakes at an early age, and good behavior can develop as they grow older. If they experience the joy of being forgiven at a young age then they will not hesitate to apologize even if they have made a big mistake.
Avoid the habit of blaming others for mistakes. We also need to learn to accept our own shortcomings without blaming others when we have failures. Such habits will lead us to patience. It is also easier for one person who acknowledges his own shortcomings to accept the other’s shortcomings.