Pope Francis addressed the Vatican College of Penitentiaries, marking the 250th anniversary of the Conventual Franciscans’ ministry of confessions in St. Peter’s Basilica. He emphasized the importance of humility, listening, and mercy in their role.
The Pope stressed that a good confessor must be close, merciful, and compassionate, always forgiving and welcoming. He warned against acting as a psychiatrist, instead advising, “The less you talk, the better. Just listen, console, and forgive.”
Pope Francis highlighted the need for humility, citing Apostle Peter’s example. He encouraged the confessors to view themselves as “penitents” first, seeking God’s mercy. Active listening is crucial, receiving each person’s words as a gift from God.
Mercy, compassion, and gentleness are essential, in recognizing the humility of those seeking confession. The Pope cited Saint Leopold Mandic and Cardinal Luis Pascual Dri as examples of merciful confessors.
“Closeness, mercy, and compassion are the three faces of God,” Pope Francis emphasized, thanking the Vatican Penitentiaries for their service. He reiterated, “Always forgive everything, because we are here to forgive; let others argue!”