The first day of a new calendar year is always a holy day in the Church dedicated to Mary, the Mother of God. So it’s a perfect day to consider how we might lean on her in the coming year. We can ask for her intercession as well as learn from her example and apply it to how we live. Isn’t that the perfect new year’s resolution?
Here are some simple ways to let Mary guide your year…
Calm
When our life is out of control, we can get into a panic, but we can seek calmness by following Mary’s example.
Being the “highly favored one” came with a lot of responsibility — and stressors. Mary had no idea what Joseph, her betrothed, would say to the idea of her conceiving the Son of God. Yet she remained calm and humble. There was no drama, just trust and peace that God would be faithful.
Say “YES”
It’s so easy to say “no” to something when you’re feeling unsure. But just imagine getting a visit from a stranger — an angel, no less — who tells you that God has chosen you to give birth to His son. It was a pretty daunting mission! But Mary had the courage and faith to say “yes,” which can give us the courage to say “yes” when we’re not sure of what lies ahead.
Be with Your Kids
Our children trigger many emotions in us, including worry. Mary and Joseph went through every parent’s nightmare when 12-year-old Jesus went missing for 3 days. When Jesus was found in the Temple in the depths of theological discussion, He asked Mary why they’d been searching for Him, because He was in His “Father’s house.” While it may have seemed like rejection, Mary embraced her Son’s path and helped Him on His way.
For Others
Help those in need because it can make us feel uncomfortable. Mary faced many difficult situations. She made haste to help her pregnant older cousin, Elizabeth. She went through the agony of watching her son be crucified. If we’re present and attentive to those in need we’re imitating one of Mary’s finest qualities.