It is very difficult to get a compliment that you are a nice person. There are several undeniable traits of genuinely kind, good-hearted people. Keep reading to learn what they are. Here are some qualities that can be filled in your mind to be nicer.
1. THEY COMPLIMENT OTHERS.
A nice person has an innate habit of praising others. They understand that people deserve to hear compliments and enjoy lifting others up. They’re also excited to acknowledge the success of others.
2. THEY’RE HONEST.
People who are authentically kind constantly show honesty to themselves and others. However, they are sure to do this tactfully. You never have to wonder if you’re going to hear the truth from them. And, even though nice people compliment others, they’re also truthful when it comes to constructive criticism.
3. THEY HAVE GOOD MANNERS.
From holding the door open for others to always remembering to say ‘thank you,’ kind people rarely forget to use their manners. They’re respectful to others and they want everyone to feel important.
4. THEY’RE FORGIVING.
We all know that forgiveness can be difficult, especially when we’re extremely hurt. However, a kind person is understanding and realizes that people deserve a second chance and sometimes a third. This isn’t to say that others can walk all over that nice person who is also a strong person.
5. THEY SHOW GENEROSITY.
Have you ever heard someone being referred to as the person who would ‘give the shirt off their back?’ A nice person feels like things are meant to be shared, especially when someone is in need. They gladly give their time, energy, and belongings. Not only are they generous, but they do so without expecting anything in return.
6. THEY’RE PATIENT.
Kindhearted people show this by being patient. They believe in others and they understand that people make mistakes or take time at things. You won’t feel rushed by a good-hearted person.
7. THEY’RE POSITIVE.
Typically, nice people don’t complain or focus on the negative. They do this by looking at the bright side of things and speaking positively even in bad situations.
8. THEY SHOW AN INTEREST IN OTHERS.
Kindly people care about others – how they feel, what they think, and what they know. They understand that everyone has something to offer. During conversations, they ask open-ended questions and listen.
9. THEY’RE THOUGHTFUL.
A nice person is considerate of the needs of others and wants them to feel good. They often do kind gestures just because.
10. THEY SHOW GRATITUDE.
It’s easy to want to do nice things for good people and they’ll always show gratitude. Even though warm-hearted people are often doing things for others, they show their appreciation when others do for them.
11. THEY EASILY MAKE FRIENDS.
Most of us can agree that it’s easy to want to be around someone who’s genuinely a delightful human. Kindhearted souls are great at building new relationships.
12. THEY’RE CONSISTENT.
You can always count on an authentically friendly person to always treat everyone with kindness. It’s natural to them and doesn’t take a ton of effort.
13. THEY’RE HUMBLE.
While nice person is probably confident because they inevitably have a lot to offer, they have humility and never act as if they’re the best human on Earth. They know their strengths and weaknesses. They have a modest opinion of their importance which goes back to their belief that everyone has something to offer.
14. THEY DISPLAY INTEGRITY.
Amiable people have strong values and maintain them no matter what. They work to do their best in all areas of life and at all times.
15. THEY’RE ACCEPTING.
No matter who you are, a truly nice person will accept you. They know you don’t have to like everyone but that it’s important to be friendly towards everyone. They embrace diversity regardless of different values, beliefs, or feelings. They have an open mind and don’t criticize others.
(Adapted and edited from boom.boom)